Farewell Mungolina…

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Mungo the dogThey say that to lose your pet feels as if you've lost your best friend… well for us last week the sadness of that happened.

Our darling and beautiful Mungolina was found to have cancer and she was in terrific pain, for thankfully only a really, really short time before it was found. So the impossibly hard yet necessary decision to help her to sleep and go to heaven was made.


Mungo as a puppyAs I'm writing this I can't seem to control my tears and think I've held things in because of the children and work this week, but today is a day at home, on my own and Dan has just collected her ashes. I know she's not there and I truly do think of her careering around up there in heaven, but the finality has really hit home.

Although she was an old lady it really was so hard to believe as she still behaved like a  puppy with mad bunks up and down the garden and she looked like a dog half her age as she was in such great shape – just that little grey muzzle (like her Daddy's) that gave away her 14 and a half years!

Telling Tom, Joe and Maddie was so hard and we cried and cried together for "our girl". Maddie and Joe disappeared and came back with all the pictures of her from around the house and proceeded to make a little area, like a shrine I guess on the rug.

They filled her bowl with food and water and found her teddy. She always suckled on a soft toy  throughout her entire life, I spent many hours retrieving the children's special teddies from Mungo's, washing them and returning them before it was noticed teddy had a flattened and soggy paw! 

Mungo 004However, it was Tom who surprised us all. He has totally adored his "Mungolina best dog" as he called her and she has been the subject of his school projects and show-and-tells over the years – how we managed to stop him literally taking her in for the show-and-tell I don't know! 

His reaction was amazing. Tom went off and came back with a loo roll and proceeded to entirely cover all the area his brother and sister had created for Mungo with the entire loo roll – he was saying as he did it, "That's enough crying, it's a happy place, stop now, it's happy place".

I think that was his way of interpreting my telling him that Mungo isn't in pain now so we must be happy that she isn't hurting any more. I think he made Heaven. It's heartbreaking though as each morning the same question…"Where's Mungo?" begins our day, I wonder for how long?

Claire, Dan and MungoWe looked back through the photos and remembered how when Dan's Mum, sister and I went to choose her. I painted one of her claws with blue nail varnish as I was so worried the breeder may muddle her up and she'd go to someone else by accident! Polly Paranoid or what!

As I remember double and triple checking all my babies had their wrist tags on after they'd been born for the same reason, though I did refrain from my nail varnish identification system though! Just!

We laughed and cried reliving the moment she was "opened" as Dan's surprise present, yes she was in a box… but a huge one and for only a millisecond.

Dan's face was a picture and we were all so happy for him. She was our first 'baby' and we showed the children the Mungo we had known and adored even before they were even born!

The Mungo who had the nicest and most gentle temperament, putting up with all the extra loving from three teeny babies even when she was eating and sleeping…….. truly a "best dog" to quote Tom!

So this weekend, my wonderful mother in law, who was Mungo's other Mummy as she has loved and looked after her with us all her life; Katherine and Jes (my sis and brother in law) their 'girls' beautiful black labs Molly and Bess; Dan's sister and her dogs, Mowgli and Spike; Barney, my mother-in-law's huge black lab who's missing Mungo terribly and all of us, we will walk around the woods Mungo loved so much, thinking of her in 'happy land' and 'sprinkle' as we go…

Lots of love to you all, and especially to all your four-legged friends,

Claire x

47 Comments

  1. Gillian Barnsley October 18, 2011 at 1:26 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire, so very sorry to hear about Mungo,our dog Tess died of that terrible disease a few years ago (she was only 7) The emptiness they leave is unbearable, and can only be understood from a true animal lover. Time is a great healer, and we had Tess cremated on her own and now are able to visit her marble headstone in the pet cemetery where she was laid to rest (along with a picture of her mummy and daddy (myself and my husband) and her favourite pebble from a Lakeland beach. Think of Mungo with love and pride in the knowledge that “Doggy Heaven” is a wonderful place and so fitting for the pleasure and unconditional love our pets give us.
    Thinking of you all
    Love Gill Barnsley xxxxxx

  2. sonia neale October 18, 2011 at 1:35 pm -  Reply

    Oh Claire, so sad to read your blog, i know exactly what your all feeling. We lost our wonderful german shepherd Kooda 2years ago at the age of 13, we had to make the terrible decision to put him to sleep, as he had so many problems,and could,nt realy enjoy life any more and in a lot of pain that the medication obviously was’nt coping with, so on the advice of our vet took him there one last time. Time does heal eventually, but writing this has brought it back and am struggling through tears. He will always be our little boy in a fur coat and his ashes are still with us waiting till its our turn. I did feel for you so much this morning when i saw you the butler & wilson show, but you managed to hold it together very well. Keep smiling claire x from sonia in devon

  3. Eileen McIntosh October 18, 2011 at 4:56 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire,
    So Sorry to hear your beautiful dog Mungo has died. Our beloved Fox terrier Barney, passed away last year, he was the same age as Mungo. The pain does ease but there is not a day that passes without me missing him, although now we can recall,with a smile, many happy memories.He was my third boy, only difference being, he had four legs. Take care, Eileen, Glasgow

  4. Joanna Downey October 18, 2011 at 6:32 pm -  Reply

    Dear Claire, I’m so sorry to read your sad news, it’s an awful experience and it hurts really badly. I’ve gone through this several times and I know how difficult it is to look at all those photos, as you said she was your first ‘baby’, and you think you’ll never stop crying. I believe that it’s really important to relive all those first, happy memories as that is your tribute to her and little by little the pain will lessen but the love will always remain. Mungo was a member of your family and a wonderful part of Tom, Joe and Maddie’s childhood; they are old enough to have memories of her and bless Tom for his intuition and beautiful nature. Be kind to yourself, you were lucky to have Mungo for over fourteen years and she was lucky to have you. Love and understanding, Jo x

  5. Martin forbes bucksburn aberdeen October 18, 2011 at 7:12 pm -  Reply

    sorry to hear of your dog passing away claire

  6. sylvia October 18, 2011 at 7:58 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire
    So sorry to hear of you losing Mungo.I remember when you used to talk about her on tv.
    I lost my very dearly loved dog last year.He was 15 I thought my heart was going to break.As we couldn’t have family,my dogs have always been my babies.
    We did get another 2 puppies who have just turned 1year old this week and I love them to pieces.
    When you do feel ready Claire,try and get 2 sibling dogs as they are so much fun to watch when they are playing together!
    Much love to you and your family Claire xxx

  7. Cheryl October 18, 2011 at 8:51 pm -  Reply

    Oh Claire
    Im so sorry to hear that you have lost your beautiful four legged baby. I have read your blog and typing this with tears rolling down my face. You are like me I think and that is she was part of the family and not a pet. Dogs bring such a joy to our lives but leave a hugh hole when they go.
    We lost my “brother” Robbie 7years ago he was a wonderful west highland white terrier ( Westie.) He died when Mum and Dad returned to Cornwall for the first time after my Grandfather died, 10 years previously. Grandad lived in St Agnes. Robbie obviously wanted to be with his Grandad.
    My thoughts are with you and the family and sending you a big (((hug)))
    Love Cheryl xox

  8. Una October 18, 2011 at 9:02 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire
    In tears too as I write this. Remembering our two “girls” cats, rather than dogs, but whats the difference. Hollopy and Softie! We lost Softie (pronounced soaftie, not softy!!) 9 years ago, and I still cry for her. She had heart failure at the age of 8, then 2 years ago, we lost Hollopy. Unfortunately, the same as your best dog. I found a lump, took her to the vet the next day. He did a biopsy and found that it was very rare and very invasive cancer. We let her go there and then. i couldnt even take the chance that she would feel even the slightest pain, and that was it.
    They are hoth in their favourite spots in the garden, and they have treea planted. Every time we go on holiday, we bring them both a stone and place it on the graves when we come home.
    Sending a huge hug to you and the family Claire. Maybe one day another “best dog” will find a place in your home, but in the meantime, you all have your favourite memories.
    I kept saying i could never have another cat, but last year a little boy found a place in our home, and a place in my heart. he is crazy, funny, and we have the most amazing bond. His name is Loops, as he is, actually Loopy!!!!
    Lots of love
    Una x

  9. Lizzie Foreman October 18, 2011 at 9:03 pm -  Reply

    Dear Claire
    What sad news and it is true pets are a member of your family and its so hard when they go to heaven. I remember when our dog Oscar was put to sleep, who we had had for fifteen and a half years, that it was really tough especially when we had him before the children and they had grown up with him. My daughter was always drawing pictures and writing little notes to him for ages afterwards! How sweet of Tom to try and cheer everyone up.
    Hope you take comfort in all the happiness that she brought to your life and family and knowing that you gave her a lovely family home.
    Take care
    Lizzie xxx

  10. Chrissie October 18, 2011 at 9:45 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire,
    So sorry to hear about Mungo. Its so terribly hard when we lose our ‘babies’! I had to have my little cat Squeeks put down 5 weeks ago – she was 23 years old and she too was still a kitten at times! However I now have 2 more – Sweetie Pie and Lollipop who have proceeded to demolish every net curtain in the house, broken a lamp and a vase! Squeeks will not be forgotten but we laugh so much at the antics of the new kittens that we dont have much time to be sad! Stay smiling Claire – it does get better!
    Best wishes to all your family, Chrissie

  11. Fay Wheeler October 19, 2011 at 8:14 am -  Reply

    Hi Claire i’m so sorry to hear about your beloved Mungo.i can rember when our lovely boxer Barney had to be put to sleep it feels like your heart is going to break because its like losing a member of the family we buried Barney in our garden with a brass plaque over where he is resting,i vowed that we would never have another but many years later we now have Tess a beautiful Rotty who i love to pieces she’s my baby girl i’ve never forgotten Barney and neither will you forget Mungo.Children surprise us dont they about how they handle greif i think they are better at it then us adults,how about planting a beautiful tree with a plaque underneath somewhere where you can go and remember.
    will write again
    blessed Be
    Love Fay xxx
    And a big doggy kiss from Tess xx

  12. Julie Gray October 19, 2011 at 9:23 am -  Reply

    Hi Claire, I read your blog with tears pouring down my cheeks. Anyone who has had a beloved pet struggle with illness and had to make the decision to put them to sleep will understand exactly what you are going through. Terrible though the decision was you had no choice but to let Mungo go. Concentrating on the happy memories and remembering him with your family may be hard at the moment but this will gradually get easier for all of you. I do wish you all the best. Love from Julie G in Hertfordshire.

  13. Tony October 19, 2011 at 2:32 pm -  Reply

    Hello Claire
    Sorry to hear about this sad news. It’s wonderful that Tom takes it the way he does however. Imagine for a kid to have a pet or a person you’ve been living with everyday your whole life suddenly disappear. This is learning the concept of death and that nothing’s forever the hard way and I imagine it can be a brutal experience when you are young.
    Take care…

  14. Susan October 19, 2011 at 6:00 pm -  Reply

    Oh Clarita, you made me well up! What a wonderful blog..so heartfelt but so happy. Your little Tom is amazing isn’t he. An inspiration just like his Mummy. I’m so sorry for your loss. What an adorable photo of you and your gorgeous Dan and Mungopup. You are a stunning couple you two! I hope you have a lovely time in the woods. Sad though too. We sprinkled our bambino’s ashes where we planted a rose bush for her. I love to see it bloom.
    Loved your Zumba shows with Matt – you have such fun! You’re amazing Claire. I can never say it enough. You are a star.
    Take care and chat soon,
    Susan x

  15. kay salisbury October 19, 2011 at 7:14 pm -  Reply

    Oh Claire-someone who feels like me-or at least how I felt in February.We ‘lost’ our Sisco dog-10 years old and at the risk of upsetting you-I still feel dreadful without him. I howled when my husband phoned to tell me our Sisc was not coming home from the vets-dramatic but so natural-bit like Heathcliffe when his Cathy died-and I still miss him now-almost as much.I have his last photo, laminated, on the fridge and each night I say goodnight to him as I used to when he was in his bed in the kitchen.It would be easy to run out and get another but I am waiting at least a year-out of respect for our member of the family.I wonder if there is something wrong with me as others seem to get over the loss quicker-but I have been retired for the last 2 years, now looking after grandchildren, and became even closer to our pooch in that time. Dogs are fantastic and I would give anything for 1 last day with him.I hope you all feel better soon Claire.I am sure your dog had a great life with you and your lovely family. Take care. KAY. XXX

  16. Julie October 19, 2011 at 7:41 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire
    I know what you’re going through. We lost our yellow lab Zara to Cancer 4 years ago. We kept her alive 6 months after she was diagnosed at the cost of £5000! Insurance Company wouldn’t pay anything. We would not have had it any other way as it was our decision. The day she passed she “told” us that enough was enough and she could take no more. I said to her as she passed This is only goodnight and not goodbye-the Vet was in tears.
    We bought her when my daughter was young as she was afraid of dogs. Whenever my daughter was poorly in the night she would go into Zara’s basket and talk to her. We also have Zara’s ashes in the house with her favourite toys along side them on “her” shelf. Unless one’s an animal lover or have experienced this for themselves I think some people would think we’re mad!
    We now have a rescued GSD who was in a very bad way but have to say she’s helped the grieving process.
    Well done on the BCC night and all the money raised for a very good cause.
    Love
    Julie xxx

  17. Kristina Moore October 19, 2011 at 9:17 pm -  Reply

    Hello Claire and family, I hope the pain of losing Mungo will ease for all of you. You don’t forget those that you love be they human or animal and they live on that way too.
    Hope Gypsy is providing solace too.
    Hugs
    Tina X0X0X0X0X0 (one set each)

  18. Sue October 19, 2011 at 11:58 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire,
    So sorry to hear that you have lost your wonderful Mungo.I too have lost many loved four legged friends over the years, and I know how much it hurts,but I always think it is the greatest act of love to let them go when the time comes so they do not suffer, they live on in our hearts and our memories.
    take care Claire.
    best wishes from Sue in Aberdeenshire

  19. anne McArthur October 20, 2011 at 12:21 am -  Reply

    Hello Claire, I am so sorry to hear that you have lost your beloved little pal. She looks such a happy, devoted friend to all of you in the photographs, I love her little fat legs when she was a puppy! I’m so sorry.
    Anne, Bristol

  20. Claire Sutton October 20, 2011 at 3:41 pm -  Reply

    Oh no, after a 2 hours at my computer thanking you all and checking I hadn’t missed anybody, I went to post and it’s all gone! So I’m just popping this quickly up so you know I’m trying!
    Love to you all C x

  21. Ruth Goodall October 20, 2011 at 4:12 pm -  Reply

    My thoughts are with you. I lost my beloved Bob in May. He too had cancer and it all happened within a few months. I miss him so much it is unbearable, he was my life.
    I close my eyes and see his gorgeous face and will never forget the precious 11 years I had with him.
    I would not consider getting another dog as the end is too horrific to deal with, but I know we all are different.
    I miss his physical presence and now if I am out and see a dog I have to go and ask the owner if I can stroke it, just to get a bit of comfort from actually touching a dog.
    Keep strong
    Ruth from Bradford.

  22. Marion October 20, 2011 at 6:08 pm -  Reply

    It is so sad to lose a pet. My mother always had pets and just a few weeks after getting married my husband and myself got our first dog, a really “dotty” Dalmatian who we had for over l4 years. She became ill and was put peacefully to sleep. We then had a fantastic Great Dane who tragically died of a massive heart attack when she was about 4 and a half. That was actually much worse to bear than when we lost the Dalmatian – such a shock. We have also had cats and rabbits, birds, gerbil. We should have pets especially when we have children. They bring such happy times and we mustn’t say we won’t have another pet just because we are upset at their dying. You have obviously given Mungo a fantastic life and the ultimate act of love we can give our pets is to ensure they have a peaceful end to their life. We now have a huge black long haired German Shepherd, Nell, who is nearly 8.

  23. Lin Craddy October 21, 2011 at 12:02 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire, so sorry to hear of the loss of your lovely beautiful girl. We have loved and lost two wonderful labby’s who were every part a member of our family and came everywhere with us. The heartache I thought would never go away and even now I still feel the loss of them. Josh Groban You Raise Me Up will always be their song. After two and half years we have just re-homed a labby cross from Dogs Trust and our house is a home again. I send you and your family on earth and in heaven angel blessings.
    Love and light x

  24. Linda, Glasgow October 21, 2011 at 5:47 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire
    I have just read Ali K’s blog reply to you and i came onto your blog to congratulate you on being such a great support and a true friend to herxx I am so very sorry to read about Mungo – i’m in tears as i write this comment. I have felt the pain of losing a furry friend – Toots(a cat) – it was windy and she tried to cross the road into a field,she didnt hear the car(which was speeding!!) and it hit her and broke her spine – the driver telephoned me(my number was on her collar) and he drove me to the vets (during the journey Toots was her usual bright self and she was licking my hand) but there was nothing the vet could do – Toots wasn’t in any pain but as her spine had been broken she would have had no quality of life,so we decided to send her to heaven,i hope that Mungo and Toots meet up and chase each other all over heavenxx Tom is so right – no more tears,its a happy place(out of the mouths of babes eh!!) but i’m sure Tom understands if the occasional tear is shed for such a special animalxx Love to you allxx Linda,Glasgow p.s. I love your gypsy caravan – so unusualx

  25. Lisa Carter October 21, 2011 at 9:46 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire so sorry to hear of your loss. We had to have our beloved Parson Terrier put down after she was diagnoised with cancer 5 weeks ago at just 6 years old and I can totally appreciate what you are going through. Me and my husband were and still are absolutely devasted by her death as it was so unexpected. They are such loving and loyal companions who give us so much love and pleasure that when they are no longer with us you feel your hearts are going to break. Thinking of you all with love and understanding Lisa x

  26. Louise October 21, 2011 at 10:05 pm -  Reply

    Claire
    My thoughts and extreme sympathies are with you, as I have been there and know how it feels. At least you know that what you did was to relieve her of a suffering she did not deserve to have to experience and, thankfully, did not have to. I am of the contentious opinion that human beings should also be able to legally escape from unnecessary pain and suffering.
    Losing a pet in any way is devastating, of course, and having to decide to put one of my dogs to sleep is not a decision I have ever had to make – others have had to do that. When I split with my fiance of 13 years, we had 7 boxers – we were breeders – and I was moving back in with mum after being discharged from hospital, there was no way I could take all 7 home. My ex took one, I took 2, and found new homes for the other 4, 2 of whom were housed together and I have visited. I still miss them and, in a way, it is more difficult to accept than a dog dying. One can take comfort from knowing that, although one’s dog has died, it is no longer suffering. Knowing that one’s pets are out there, but not with you, is a different type of agony – they could be with me, so why aren’t they?
    I’m sure your children, because they are still young, will find it easier to come to terms with it. I know I don’t need to tell you to remember the good times you enjoyed with her – how could you forget Mungo?
    My babies are a dad and son, Oscar and Caspar, the latter had to have a leg amputated when he was one due to an inattentive driver hitting him. I fainted twice at the hospital, but the day after the op, he was bounded up steps. It doesn’t bother him at all.
    Well, I’ve gone on for long enough. Take care, Claire.
    Louise.

  27. VIOLET October 22, 2011 at 2:05 am -  Reply

    HI CLAIRE, SO SO SAD..FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY..
    WE LOST ‘SUMO’ OUR JAPANESE AKITA AGE 13 AND 49 KILOS A GENTLE GIANT FEW YEARS AGO AND WE MISSED AND STILL MISS HIM TERRIBLY.
    THIS CHRISTMAS MY MOTHER DIED AGED 91 SHE LOVED SUMO AND HE HER WE HAD PERMISSION TO PLACE HIS ASHES AT HER FEET AND HIS NAME CERTIFICATE ..AND WE SENT THEM BOTH TO HEAVEN TOGETHER ..HOW LOVELY IS THAT..WHAT A COMFORT THAT WAS FOR ME..
    WE NOW HAVE LITTLE TILLY AND ‘SOOMI’ (CHIHUAHUA’S)AND THE CYCLE CONTINUES…WE NEVER FORGET THOSE THAT HAVE TOUCHED OUR HEARTS..AND YOUR CHILDREN WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR FIRST DOG AS I BELIEVE WE ALL DO.
    TAKE CARE VIOLET XX

  28. Jeannie October 22, 2011 at 6:04 pm -  Reply

    So, so sorry, Claire – only those of us who have been through the loss of a dearly loved dog, understand how you are feeling at the moment. However, may I suggest, after a while, you get another dog as they give you unconditional love and affection. It will never take Mungo’s place, but I can assure you, you will through time love it just as much. The children are wonderful and just seem to cope on a different level. Lots of love to you all.

  29. Nichola Baacke October 22, 2011 at 10:24 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire
    So sorry to hear about Mungo. It is very difficult when you lose a pet as they are part of the family. Sadly in January this year I lost one of my cats and she was only 4 years old. I had seen her that day and then in the evening we found her passed away in the garden and to this day we don’t know how she died. It was a great shock but it does get better with time and the strangeness of them not being there does get a little less. We still have her ashes and have made a space for her along with some photos on the landing. I also made a journal (from Anna Griffin) with photos of her sister and mum (who we still have) and I found that has helped enormously. Chin up Claire and very best wishes.
    Love
    Nichola
    xx

  30. Christine October 22, 2011 at 10:55 pm -  Reply

    Oh Clare my heart goes out to you. My black cocker spaniel passed away in July. He was an old man at 15 , but he was my baby.
    It is such a horrible time, I miss him so much and after reading your post I sobbed my heart out again.
    We have a large garden and I couldnt bring myself to part with him so we buried him the garden so that I can have a chat with him whenever I want to. I also had a small marble headstone made.
    People will probably think I am mad but I dont care !
    Christine

  31. debi stubbs October 22, 2011 at 11:07 pm -  Reply

    Oh claire sorry to hear of your loss we have a black lab called monty, he will be 12 on Nov 9th we have had him since he was 9 weeks old, he is getting very slow, he still sleeps upstairs in our bedroom at the bottom of the bed on the floor and when he goes upstairs we have to walk behind him incase he falls, he has had cancer several times, the vets know him personally, he is on heart tablets as well but he’s like my little boy, he is part of the family and i will be devestated when he’s gone, he gets spoilt rotten and he knows how to get his own way with his big brown eyes, he absolutely loves bread and he sits constantly by the bread bin and yes he always gets a slice. Take Care

  32. Karin Davidson October 23, 2011 at 8:29 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire
    I’ve just read your sad news about your lovely dog and its made me cry. I lost my dog, Baggins, 6 years ago and still miss him terribly – he was so special to me. Mungo had a fantastic life with you and your family – it is a sad time but what lovely memories you will all share about her and, because of that, she will always be a part of you all.
    Karinx

  33. anna nowak October 23, 2011 at 9:19 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire, i know exactly how you are feeling. i am greiving for the loss of my beloved Skye, a very intelligent border collie, she had a very aggressive mouth cancer and had to be put to sleep at the age of two and a half, this was in August this year, we have her sister lily, th esame age and bought them both as pups and they were never apart. Lily was not the same, they would always play together, she became very withdrawn and basically was not interested in anything , she was like an old dog! Anyway one day i looked at my beautiful garden which we had to redo when we had the pups and made it bomb proof with artificial grass [ fantastic by the way ] and i thought this garden feels sad so we bought penny who is a 3month border collie and things are happy again. lily has finally accepted her but it did take a while, and few growls and she puts penny in her place.you will always remember your best friend and shed a tear but things do get easier! love Anna x

  34. Charlotte burr October 24, 2011 at 8:04 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire,
    I can share your pain as today we had to take the painful decision to put our thirteen year old Yorkshire terrier, Phoebe to sleep. To say we are devastated is an understatement. I hope that your family is healing and know that on time ours will too. We can only take comfort in the knowledge that as dog owners we did the best for our beloved family member.
    Charlotte x

  35. Susan Pritchett nottinghamshire October 25, 2011 at 10:33 am -  Reply

    Hi Claire just read your blog,sorry about your loss.We had a bitch called Sally who passed away in 1983 at the ripe old age of 16yrs and a cat called tatty who was 12yrs when we had to lay her to rest because of the dreaded cancer.We said we would never have any more pets because of the pain of having to have them put to sleep.But last year looked after the neighbours cat debbie while they were on holiday.She cut her leg and had to have stitches so she had to come to our house to stay till her family came back off holiday.After she kept coming to visit ,but now she has moved in permanantly ,they dont mind as they say Debbie will go where she wants to.She is very loving tunes in to my moods ,nows when I am upset and comes rubbing round me.My husband has been ill for quite a few years now, he has had a couple of strokes and has epilepsy and a pacemaker.But back to you and your family just remember the good times you had with him.Thinking of you all, tears rolling down my face has I write this.lots of love to you all.

  36. Lorraine October 25, 2011 at 1:17 pm -  Reply

    Hi Lovely Claire, words are never enough at this time. We have two little dogs and the younger one Sasha also suckles on a toy and I think she like Mungo will always do so.
    Unless you are a pet person you can not possible try to imagine the pain and sadness of losing a beloved Pet (big hugs coming your way).
    My son works for the Blue Cross Animal Charity and he has to deal with life and dead of animals in his care every day and it never gets easier.
    Take care and love and hugs to all the family Lorraine xxx

  37. Annette Roberts October 26, 2011 at 8:29 am -  Reply

    Hi Claire
    So sorry to hear about your beloved Mungo, I really feel for you and your family…pets are of course an extention of that.
    We have a little Westie, called Bobby, who is 11 years old and so full of character.
    I dislocated my ankle and broke my leg in 2 places last October, which resulted in surgery and now sport metalwork on both sides of my right anklebones. It was the first time I had fallen over in years and really silly because it was on moss of all things. My confidence went for a burton and whilst in plaster for 6 weeks I was frightened to death of falling over on my crutches and doing more damage! Bobby was a real ‘Angel’ throughout, he never ran infront of me, just walked a couple of paces behind and when I was at my lowest, he was there looking deep into my eyes, saying “It’s alright Mum!”. Even when the plaster came off and I had to put my leg up because of the swelling, he lay on the sofa next to me, not once has he banged into my leg.
    No doubt I will be devasted, when the time comes, because my Mum bought him for me just before she went to sleep, so he’s a constant reminder and link to her, but like yourselves, we would not let Bobby suffer.
    Mungo, had the best life possible with you all, so please remember that when you’re feeling down.
    love’n’hugs
    Annette x

  38. Maria Richards October 26, 2011 at 11:22 pm -  Reply

    Oh Claire, how utterly devastating to lose such a bright light in your lives. My heart goes out to you all. What a blessing she has been, and even in her passing, she has given your children the gift of love and life and death and dignity and prepared them in some way for the other lessons life brings, some good, some bad, but all necessary.
    Sending you and your family virtual bear hugs to help you through.
    Love Maria
    xxxxxx

  39. Christine October 27, 2011 at 1:43 pm -  Reply

    hi Claire sorry to hear about your doggy, we know how you feel, we lost our westie on feb, of heart attack. it is a nightmare, people think your a supid they are part of the family. We decided to get another westie called Mac. we love him.
    love Christine x x

  40. Sally patmore October 27, 2011 at 1:52 pm -  Reply

    I so feel for you all. I know exactly what you are going through but you have to remember of all the happy times you had together, you will never forget as I am surenshe never will. God Bless

  41. Carrie October 28, 2011 at 9:53 pm -  Reply

    I have tears dripping down my cheeks and onto the floor reading about your loss. I am so very very sorry. I lost my beloved labrador aged 15 and a quarter three years ago. I think he had a stroke although the vet said dogs cant have them. I’d kept him going for a few months while he was ailing and becoming more frail. On his final day he couldn’t even stand. I had to make the heartbreaking decision to have him put to sleep and held him as he passed away, a decision I still struggle to come to terms with but his quality of life had gone. God bless you and your family. Hopefully one day you will get another dog to love. xx

  42. Jane November 1, 2011 at 11:50 pm -  Reply

    Hi Clare
    so sorry for your loss. I lost my own black lab last year my heart was broken as we left the house to go to the vets as we knew he wouldn’t be coming home and my daughters where looking out the window as I came home with his collar and lead in my hand. Somebody decided we should get a pup another lab well we went to look at a litter the pups mum came into the room and i burst into tears as she was too a black lab the breeder advised me perhaps you should get a choc this time. Well roll on 18months and we have the maddest dog in the world living with us now he couldn’t be more different than Simba. He has had to have major surgery as being a lab ate things he shouldn’t we took him on a caravan holiday and ran in the wrong caravan.

  43. nichola moors November 4, 2011 at 6:37 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire, I am so sorry to hear your sad news. My dog Dylan who is 15 years old is in heart failure and kidney failure, at the moment he is still enjoying his daily walks but i know i will have to make that awful decision soon. Every time i look at him i burst into tears, he was 5 weeks old when i got him he was my first baby. Sending lots of love nicky.xxx

  44. Simon December 6, 2011 at 7:16 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire,
    Just seen this post. So sorry about lovely Mungolina. I had a black Labrador called Ayesha. She was so fun, cute & lovely and we also had her for 14 & half years. She had a liver condition for her last 3 months which became too much for her.
    It has been 6 years now and I am able to remember all the times we had together and some comfort comes form that she was older than the average lifespan.
    My sincere condolences. I hope you had lots of fun memories to cherish, and the sadness and tears are replaced by the happy memories. Best wishes to you & your family.
    P.S. I love your presenting. You are fun and bubbly and I really enjoy your on air shows.
    Lots of love. Simon xxx

  45. Jenny, Jim and Ray December 22, 2011 at 8:11 pm -  Reply

    Hi Claire and the rest of your Gang, so sorry about Mungo, I don’t usually do blogs but we have just lost our chocolate working cocker, Arnie. He and his Brother, Ray, were a present from my lovely husband Jim, for my 50th after I lost my boxer, Digger Dog through old age. Thoughts, memories of Digger and now Arnie – RTA hit and run, Bromsgrove, 12/12/11 – we picked them up 10/12/09 – overwhelm us both, and the sitting in the garden, looking over the fields, the photos and just being in the house sadden us at being cheated by our Arnie and also for his brother, who was like a Siamese twin to him. Pleasure is through our memories the happy photos and knowing that we had the most magnificent and happy time for the past three years with him. I am sure you will feel the same and like us, feel priveledged that Mungo was happy with you and yours and brought happiness, like Arnie and before that Digger, to all who saw him. Be happy, not sad at his being on this Earth with you and just think of the joy he brought to you, all of which you will greatly miss. That is the evidence and legacy of a great Family member x x x

  46. sue schofield January 11, 2012 at 10:31 am -  Reply

    Hi Claire,
    Have only just read about Mungolina and am terribly sad for you all. I am a cat lover and have have many over the years and won’t go into stories just now but wonder if you have read “The Rainbow Bridge” it makes me cry every time I read it and I have read it many times and passed it on to friends to comfort them. Knowing your precious pet is waiting for you is very special and I often remind myself that “Monty” my beloved chocolate Burmese is playing and waiting and will be there. Hope it helps,
    Love
    Sue

  47. Barbara Matchett February 10, 2012 at 12:18 am -  Reply

    Hi Clare, I have just read your blog about dear Mungo, so forgive this being a bit late!
    I just wanted to share with you that there are several web sites dedicated to comforting bereaved pet owners, but I’m sure they are American because they are so heart -wrenching that they will make you sit and wail to read them.
    One particular item was written by dying dog and said, don’t worry about me, I’ll be sitting outside the gates of heaven waiting for you. Well, the image that comes to mind of your own faithful dog looking expectantly for her owner to appear always brings a lump to my throat. Thank you for opening your heart to us QVCers.

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