A cap and a gown… and a ring!


It’s been a big few weeks for my daughter Bex. She has completed her medical degree and is now officially Dr Rebecca Olley IBSc (Hons) MBBS!

photo 3 cropWe had the excitement of attending her Graduation Ceremony this week, which was held at the Royal Festival Hall on Southbank in London. It was an inspiring and moving occasion with almost 350 young doctors acknowledged as being part of the future of medicine in this country and abroad, having studied at University College London and in several London hospitals for the last six years. They each had a few seconds of their own as they crossed the stage to the applause of the audience – I managed to catch the moment on my phone!







It’s hard to believe that student life is now over for Bex – it seems to have been almost endless! But come the end of July she will be on the hospital wards as a junior doctor. She’s very excited and totally ready for the next stage of her life as a professional medic, but there’s great news in her personal life too.

the happy couple

Her lovely boyfriend Dan proposed to her a couple of weeks ago (after a phone call to Olley to ask for her hand in marriage) and they’ve already set the date for the weekend before Christmas. “Why hang around when you know it’s what you want to do?” says the ever-practical bride-to-be. So there’ll be lots of planning, decision making and list writing in the coming weeks!

photo 2 cropThey are so happy together and haven’t stopped grinning since Dan put a beautiful solitaire diamond ring in romantic rose gold on Rebecca’s finger. All you really want for your children is for them to find happiness. For Bex, at the moment, I couldn’t hope for more.

I hope the sun is shining on you, too.

Take care

Kathy x


  1. Lanie July 10, 2015 at 1:01 pm -  Reply

    Congratulations to Bex in both her professional a n private life. Cathay, u must be practically bursting with maternal pride. I hope that all goes well in thr run up to the wedding and with Bex starting her professional career. May all olleys prosper this year and beyond.
    Best wishes, Lanie xx

  2. Mrs Jayne Smith July 10, 2015 at 2:53 pm -  Reply

    Congratulation’s to your daughter what an amazing achievement. Also a fab date for a wedding. We celebrate our 17th Anniversary on the 19th of December and carols and candles made our day a magical memory. Enjoy the wedding planning and your future job.

  3. Mary Morphy July 11, 2015 at 6:51 am -  Reply

    Hi Kathy. Congratulations to your daughter on her graduation and engagement, exciting times ahead. My godson graduated as a doctor 2 years ago and is now deciding his specialism having completed some surgical exams. I admire the way he has embrassed the continual training and learning and I fully appreciate the commitment all our doctors, young and old, give us. He is going to work in plastic surgery for a year then move on to radiology; his fiancée is in her final months of qualifying as a GP. Happy times for all. By the way you looked stunning at both the graduation and Ali K’s wedding. Much love Mary x

  4. Joanna Downey July 11, 2015 at 10:32 am -  Reply

    Hello Kathy, Many congratulations to you all; the obvious and justified pride you have for all your children shines from you. There are lots of occasions in life that have that golden glow to them and graduations are definitely on that list for me and now you have a wedding to be part of and being mother of the bride is wonderful. Four years our beautiful older daughter, also Bex, got married – it was a small and stylish affair and she was a splendiferous bride. We will be doing it all again just before Christmas when our younger and equally beautiful daughter has her wedding. This time it will be a larger event and Ellie, who is a very creative girl, has planned a fairytale day. As you said all you want is for your children to find happiness – exciting times and a lovely blog. Love from Jo x

  5. Gill Graham July 11, 2015 at 12:23 pm -  Reply

    Many congratulations to Dr Bex !! And also to both Dan and Bex on their forthcoming wedding.
    So Kathy you have got a legitimate need for outfits (you looked stunning at the graduation) . To hat or not to hat that is the question
    Love to you all x

  6. Eileen Archibald July 11, 2015 at 4:51 pm -  Reply

    Congratulations to your Daughter Kathy, I know from experience how proud we Mothers are on such a wonderful day. My daughter did her degree the hard way whilst working full time and running a home so I always feel extra proud for her.
    Lovely news about Bex’s engagement and all good luck and much happiness to them both xxx

  7. Sue Smith July 12, 2015 at 10:31 am -  Reply

    Wow Kathy you & your family must be so proud of Bex, now you have your own on call doctor in the family!! So the next big milestone would be you joining Ali Keenan sorry couldn’t remember her new married name!! & having the absolute joy of becoming a grandparent big congratulations to Bex & all the best for her future, I am sure she will fulfill all her dreams & aspirations

  8. jilly July 12, 2015 at 11:34 am -  Reply

    Hi Kathy, Heartfelt congratulations to you and your family on all your good news. You are right, for your children to be happy is all you ever want as a mother. Hope you all have a wonderful wedding. My eldest daughter gets married this September, the year of planning has gone by so fast, enjoy all the planning you do for Bex, love as always to you all.

  9. Sue Woods July 12, 2015 at 11:58 am -  Reply

    Congratulations you must be so proud of your daughter. How fantastic.

    On another note what was the maxi dress you wore with the beige Kim and co carditis was a sort of pinkish red.

  10. lizzie July 12, 2015 at 2:19 pm -  Reply

    Hi Kathy, if you are wanting daffodils in December, try Scillyflowers.com. The daffs on the Scillies are available from October onwards. Have a wonderful day.

  11. Sandy July 12, 2015 at 2:21 pm -  Reply

    I remember seeing you on gmtv holding Bex when she was a few weeks old she was born aroun the same time as on of my children. Y ou must be a very proud mummy to have a doctor in your house congratulations to you all .
    Love sandy x

  12. Carole Collins July 12, 2015 at 11:00 pm -  Reply

    What a fantastic time for you. Your daughters graduation and forthcoming marriage. So very happy for you all.xxx

  13. Rosaline Greening July 13, 2015 at 11:43 am -  Reply

    Massive congratulations xx

  14. Sharon July 26, 2015 at 9:35 am -  Reply

    I absolutely LOVE the dress that you’re wearing to the graduation Kathy – are you able to divulge where it’s from? It’s sooooo what I would wear! Thanks (hopefully)!

  15. Susan July 27, 2015 at 8:51 pm -  Reply

    Hi kathy,!
    Congratulations to bex and Dan!!! Fabulous news!! They are quite the handsome couple don’t you think!? It will be lovely to have a Christmas wedding. Enjoy every moment. You looked wonderful at the graduation as did bex. Xx

  16. janet August 24, 2015 at 1:17 pm -  Reply

    Congratulations to your daughter – she looks just like you and you are looking fab – you still losing weight – you look great on the photo with your daughter

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